The "I Can't" People

The "I can't" people. We all know someone like this.

You ask them to do something, or they have a million tasks planned that they don't do any of them, and they respond right away, "I can't I have to....." or "I can't it's too late."

As frustrating as it is, we understand that all of us have some illusions about time. There doesn't seem to be enough time to do the things we want to since there seems to be so many things we HAVE to do.

While this may FEEL true at times, I surmise through my experience, that when someone makes a statement like "I can't", which is so curt, final and matter of fact, they have somehow gotten stuck in a linear time frame mentality and given up living life in some way.
(Yes, sometimes there actually is a reason that isn't muddled and that's completely different.)

Whether you agree with me or not, I am sure we can agree on one thing...
Let's send the "I can't" people in our lives some love.
* Send love to support themselves and their relationships
* Send love to feel that time is just an illusion
* Send love to whatever mind game is holding them back
* Send love, just because love does actually make the world go round sometimes!

So now, focus on the image of the heart shaped stone in my hand.

Imagine this heart stone in your hand
Picture a person you know who says "I can't" quite often in your mind's eye
Send them some love for as long as you'd like...


Mahalo Nui for journeying in this special way for someone you care about.

Sat Nam, Lisa


Lisa Kai is a licensed bodywork therapist in Chicago Illinois. She specializes in transformational bodywork including Lomi Lomi and Craniosacral. This blog contains her insights on bodywork and everyday tips for practicing Aloha for the body, mind, and spirit. Lisa also practices Aloha, is a nature loving tiki freak, digs jazz, double dips her veggies, is an artist, and embraces change